This adds the ability to pattern match unordered lines. For example, the
downloading messages may appear in any order
```
[UNORDERED_START]
Download https://localhost:4546/a.ts
Download https://localhost:4546/b.ts
[UNORDERED_END]
Hello!
```
Additionally, I've made the pattern matching slightly more strict and the output better.
This adds support for the lockfile and node_modules directory to the
lsp.
In the case of the node_modules directory, it is only enabled when
explicitly opted into via `"nodeModulesDir": true` in the configuration
file. This is to reduce the language server automatically modifying the
node_modules directory when the user doesn't want it to.
Closes #16510
Closes #16373
