Fixes #23493.
What was happening here was that napi-rs was freeing the napi reference
([here](19e3488efc/crates/napi/src/bindgen_runtime/mod.rs (L62)))
during its finalize callback (which we call
[here](fb31eaa9ca/cli/napi/js_native_api.rs (L132))).
We then were [reading the `ownership`
field](fb31eaa9ca/cli/napi/js_native_api.rs (L136))
of that freed reference.
For some reason on arm macs the freed memory gets zeroed, so the value
of `ownership` was `0` when we read it (i.e. it was
`ReferenceOwnership::Runtime`). We then freed it again (since we thought
we owned it), causing the segfault.
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